Dutch schools, policy and professionalism (gesloten)

I'm curious whether policy might become practice faster in traditional Dutch schools, and if staff are more professional. My child is currently in an "alternative" international school that has its own culture, which is great in many ways, but they don't always do things according to the law. I have brought up a few concerns regarding my child's physical safety and emotional well-being and felt both dismissed and shunned by the staff, who seem to have an attitude of "you're either with us or against us." In other words, they are not comfortable with accountability and resisting parent input. My child is still happy at the school and slowly the staff are making the changes required, but I'm burned out from advocating and the way I've been treated has severely impacted my mental health. I wonder if this would also be the case in a regular school here, as I'm deciding what kind of school my child will attend next year and also whether it would be worth it to switch mid-year. But if all schools are like this, making parents feel uncomfortable and disliked for communicating problems, then it won't matter. 

Infobericht: de voertaal op dit forum is Nederlands, daarom is dit topic gesloten.